About a month ago, I came across a video featuring Trevor Noah (Trevor Noah: My Depression Was Linked To ADHD!) the first hour deeply resonated with me. Feeling the pain of his childhood abuse, the ACEs. It's no wonder it's one of the most-watched videos—it lifted my spirits and reminded me why I love what I do. Watching it validated and reignited my passion for creating spaces where male survivors of childhood sexual abuse can come together, heal, and thrive.
What I do often feels less like a profession and more like being a member of a family—helping brothers navigate their journeys. I feel profoundly blessed to hold workshops and coaching sessions where men can be authentic, heard, challenged, supported, and loved. It’s about working together to untangle trauma and step into a life that feels fulfilling and true.
For me, this work is about fostering a family of brothers—a space where we can be ourselves, support one another, and grow together. It reminds me of the deep, rare friendship between Jonathan and David—a bond built on trust, loyalty, and love. Relationships like that don’t happen by accident. They require effort, commitment, and a refusal to take each other for granted.
So, what’s the takeaway? If you haven’t already seen Trevor Noah’s video, I encourage you to watch it, at least the first hour or so. It’s full of golden nuggets that just might inspire you. Take those insights and turn them into action—whatever that looks like for you. I can't change the series of events in my abusive narrative. I don't know who I would have been it had not happened. I do recognize the resilience its unearthed in me the life augmentation of having a few great male survivor friendships.
And if you’re a male survivor seeking a place to begin your healing journey, I want you to know I’m here. You don’t have to walk this path alone. Reach out—I’m ready to listen, to meet you where you are, and to discover who you are. You’re not just welcome here; you’re valued.
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